UPDATES FROM OASIS
Winter 2026
Returning from Sabbatical, a growing care team and what’s ahead.
October 1, 2026
A note from Ben & Katie
After eight years of married life in South Africa, and several intense years of building Oasis, this sabbatical gave us something we had not had in a long time: space to recover from the startup season.
The early years of building an organization required a great deal of energy, flexibility, and attention. So much of life had been shaped around what Oasis needed next. During sabbatical, we wanted to step out of that pace long enough to rest, reflect, and begin building rhythms that could sustain both our lives and the work for the years ahead.
For Ben, part of that meant preparing for a new season of study. He begins his PhD in September, and used the sabbatical to experiment with rhythms of study and work that better support the way his ADHD brain functions rather than constantly working against it. It was an opportunity to think more intentionally about focus, energy, and how doctoral study can fit alongside leadership at Oasis in a healthy way.
For Katie, the season looked different. After a long stretch of health challenges, rest and recovery were the priority. She also finally had space to tackle the many practical pieces of life that had accumulated in the background while so much of our attention had gone toward building Oasis. Clearing some of that mental and administrative load created its own kind of breathing room.
What encouraged us most was how different Oasis felt when we returned.
While we were away, the work continued. Families were welcomed into restorative intensives, our care team carried greater responsibility, and the ministry did not depend on our constant presence in the way it once had. We returned deeply grateful for the team that has grown around this work, and with a growing sense that Oasis itself is beginning to move beyond its startup season.
There is still much to build, but the work now feels increasingly shared. We are entering this next season with more capacity, clearer roles, and renewed energy for what lies ahead.
Ben & Katie
While we were on sabbatical, the Oasis care team continued to welcome families into restorative intensives. For us, this was more than simply keeping programmes running. It was a meaningful sign that Oasis is becoming a ministry carried by a growing team rather than dependent on any one person.
This quarter, two families received intensive, individualized care. One of those intensives was fully sponsored through the generosity of our donors.
From the Sanctuary
In Their Own Words
Across our recent intensives, guests have described the experience this way:
“I had no idea what to expect. In fact, I arrived thinking it was going to be a space to work out all of our flaws. Instead there was grace and permission to be where I was at, with space to debrief some of the things I couldn’t talk to my wife about. Not because I wanted to keep secrets, but because the shame I carried in myself stopped me. This process changed how we see each other and engage with our day-to-day worlds.”
— M Family
“We left with a renewed sense of hope and practical next steps. It wasn’t just a break from the busyness. It was a turning point for our family”
— M Family
“We left with a renewed sense of hope and practical next steps. It wasn’t just a break from the busyness. It was a turning point for our family”
— M Family
Growing Beyond the Intensive
This season has also brought meaningful growth behind the scenes. As Oasis has developed, we’ve been intentionally building the people, partnerships and programmes needed to offer deeper and more sustainable care.
Introducing our Director of Care !
Alexa Matthews Russell, MSW, serves as our Director of Care, helping steward the clinical and relational care that surrounds each restorative intensive.
Alexa works closely with our care team to prepare for incoming guests, coordinate care across disciplines, support programme development, and help ensure that each family’s experience is thoughtful, integrated and responsive to their needs.
Her growing leadership was especially significant during our sabbatical. While we stepped away, Alexa and the wider team continued to carry the work of welcoming and caring for families. Seeing that happen was deeply encouraging to us and represented an important step in Oasis becoming a stronger and more sustainable organization.
STRENGTHENING CHURCH PARTNERSHIPS
We’re currently collaborating with two local churches in Cape Town as they think intentionally about the care and resilience of their staff. Rather than offering a one-off training, these relationships allow us to listen to the needs of each community and help develop approaches to staff care that are appropriate to their context.
ADULT & CHILDREN’S PROGRAMME DEVELOPMENT
Each restorative intensive continues to teach us. We’re refining both the adult and children’s portions of the Oasis programme, incorporating feedback from guests and strengthening the tools, rhythms and resources that help families move from identifying what they are carrying toward practical next steps for life after the intensive.
BUILDING A TEAM THAT CAN CARRY THE WORK
One of the most encouraging developments of this quarter was seeing our team continue the work while Ben and Katie were away. We’re continuing to invest in clearer roles, stronger systems and deeper collaboration so that Oasis can serve more families without losing the individualized care and hospitality at the heart of the ministry.
Looking Ahead
We’re excited about the opportunities ahead and would love for you to be part of them.
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One of the families we served this quarter received their intensive because donors like you made it possible. Approximately $4,000 funds one complete Oasis intensive.